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Manfraco Reconciliation Doc
Let me tell you how we behave
Or perhaps I should have said; Let me tell you how we should behave.
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This is Frank@yahoo writing this post for my contribution.
There are a lot of times that in our life we behave in a certain way, which may very well be acceptable to all of us, so, let us just pretend that we meet somebody.
We meet this person and greet them the usual way, and then, we would usually ask: How are you? Or perhaps: How are you today?
And I am sure that if you were that person you would answer me; I am very well, thank you. Or perhaps you’ll say, I am well, or I am fine, or I feel great, or I feel as good as gold thanks very much.
And then just to be polite to me you’ll ask me back. And how are you today? (And then you’ll expect from me very much the same answers that you have given me.) I am very well, thank you. Or I am fine. I am as good as gold thanks. And so on.
Speaking for myself, the reality of life is that I find life for me has lots of ups and downs, and even if I don’t admit them to you, I feel them within myself. So, when you happen to ask me, ‘How are you?’ I may happen to be very much down, but, I will still answer you: I am very well, thank you! So, my dear readers, listeners or friends, there are no doubts about our behaviour and we have to admit, that:
We behave sometimes as if the world is indeed unreal,
when we do say things that we do not mean or feel.
And even when our own heart is hurt and cries in pains,
we do turn to the world and pretending smile again,
because we don’t want the world to see our pains.
But all the efforts that we have made have been in vain.
Because our heart still hurts and we still feel that pain.
I am sure that some of you will agree with me about what I have just said, because you may have been in a painful situation yourself sometimes, and therefore you know and understand what I mean. But at the same time one may also ask here: What’s the use to pretend such a thing? When it is only pretence? Even if, it has been able to make one feel better for a few moments, and one has been able to overcome the inner pains and has smiled just for a second. But, is all this pretence worthwhile to live one’s life in such a way deceiving oneself?
I believe that to pretend to be well is the normal accepted way.
My own judgement is that, perhaps it may be worth behaving in such a deceitful way, not because we have been able to lie to ourselves, but because we have been able to control our own pains. And to live as well as one can; one must be in control of oneself.
Manfraco Reconciliation Doc
Let me tell you how we behave
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